The Match Lab

Dating Tips

Breaking down the psychology of dating and the science of attraction.

We conduct research to uncover new dating tips that actually work. Read our blog posts here to learn about our findings and discover a smarter way to date.

Dating Tips
Funny, interesting, and flirty questions to ask a girl over text to rizz her up: "If we were to date, what would our couple name be?" "Would you rather be called cute or hot?" "If I were there with you right now, what would you want to do?"
Thoughtful Secret Santa questions for friends and coworkers so you buy the perfect gift: "What's a hobby..." "If you could..." "Do you prefer..." "What's your favorite...
Hot seat questions that are spicy, juicy, and funny: "What's your go-to move to turn someone on?" "Have you ever had a dirty dream about someone you know?" "What's the most embarrassing song you secretly love?"
Rapid fire questions for couples, employees, and friends that are flirty, funny, and team-building: "What's your dream..." "How would you describe..." "What's your favorite...
Best belated birthday wishes for when you're late: "I'm so sorry I missed your birthday! I hope you..." "Oops, missed your birthday! But let's be honest, you...
Cousin birthday wishes that are short and funny, for a female or male cousin: "To my cousin who's more like a sister, wishing you a birthday filled with love, laughter, and all your heart's desires." "Happy Birthday! Here's to a cousin who's smart, talented, and almost as awesome as I am!"
Son-in-law birthday wishes that are heart-touching, funny, and simple: "Happy Birthday to a son-in-law who has become a true son to us. You are a cherished member of our family and we love you." "Happy Birthday to a son-in-law who's survived another year with our family. Here's to many more!"
Sister-in-law birthday wishes that are heart touching, short, and funny: "Happy Birthday to a sister-in-law who has become like a real sister to me." "Congrats on surviving another year with our crazy family!"
Birthday wishes for your girlfriend that are heart touching, romantic, funny, and cute: "Happy Birthday to the one who makes my heart skip a beat. I love you more with each passing day." "If you keep getting more beautiful, I might need to wear sunglasses around you."
Birthday wishes for your boss that are heart touching, funny, and professional: "Happy Birthday to a remarkable leader! May your day be as inspiring and fulfilling as the impact you've made in our lives." "To a boss who's more like a mentor, Happy Birthday! Your wisdom and kindness have been a guiding force in my career."